You finally found someone that you see eye to eye with, it is like the perfect date and you just can’t wait till the next one. You have everything in common, they didn’t skimp you on the dinner bill, they make you laugh and the passion is just high. Next thing you know you are falling for this person and you begin to want more, you’ve been dating for awhile, you get closer and things are just so great! You see yourself marrying this person; you see them as your soul mate. Then all of a sudden you get some bad news, you found out that he or she is married! What!
The first thing that would probably go through your mind is disbelief. You think you’ve Been played and why didn’t they tell you, why did they lie to you? You’ve put all this time whether it has been a month or a year into this relationship being committed and thinking your lover was doing the same and they have been not only deceiving you but their spouse as well.
You have fallen in love, given them your heart and this is how they do you! What can you do? Do you give them another chance, no! Do you find out why, why they made you fall in love with them knowing they were married? You have built this relationship and all you feel is pain and the sense of being betrayed.
The first thing I would do is to probably kick him between the legs and give him a good smack in the face! And he better not be by my car when I pull off because who’s to say what might happen, I’m just saying when you are hurt like that your emotions can get the best out of you.
This is one of my favorite quotes that many do not go by; Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none. ~William Shakespeare. Though you do not get treated the ways you deserve do not let it take over your hope, love and trust in others. I know you might be thinking about calling their spouse and letting them know what’s going on, but it will make it worse, out of spite it might feel good and you may be doing them a favor, but who’s to say.
I would confront this person, there will be tears shed but you have to let it all out! If they tell you oh, I don’t want to be with my wife or husband, I’m trying to get a divorce, I’m not in love with them anymore, don’t believe it! This is just a way for them to buy time to cheat and lead you on. The best thing to do is to just break-up, though I know some that will still stay with this person knowing that they are living a lie. Ashley Madison Reviews recommends the same steps!
I know love hurts, and it seems like you can’t let them go, but in the end once you have realized you don’t need a dishonest relationship you can live better and leave yourself available for someone who will treat you right. If you stay you’ll have nothing but conflict and phony promises to hang on to. And whether their spouse knows about you or not it’s best to walk away, why would you want to hold on to something that is not yours. Words mean nothing coming out of a cheater’s mouth, go by this quote; Trust only movement. Life happens at the level of events, not of words. Trust movement. ~Alfred Adler, action speaks louder than words.
Life is too short to dedicate your life to a married man or woman; there are plenty of honest people out their looking for love. Give yourself the opportunity to be loved right, you deserve it. Heartbreak sucks! Cry it out, scream it out, eat it out whatever you do, do it and move on.